Planning Your Wedding
Are you in love with the dream of the perfect wedding yet overwhelmed with all the details and responsibility put upon you to plan your dream day yourself? can’t you just smell it? Love is in the air. Heck, love is always in the air for some lucky couple who’ve decided to tie the knot and make it a permanent thing.
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When we say wedding, it is a ritual officially celebrating the beginning of a marriage. And all of us are aiming to have a memorable wedding in our life. Because a wedding happens once in a life time. Have you and your sweetheart considered a fantasy wedding yet? Some folks truly go all out with these things now days. Don’t get me wrong, I love a good wedding, but within a certain budget of some sort. I mean when couples are spending 30 grand on the ceremony alone, I think that’s getting a tad ridiculous. Well, that is unless you’re Brad Pit and Angelina Jolie or something. I’m sure they could have a dread wedding and honeymoon merely off the cash they made from selling a picture of their baby. Anyway, one thing is for certain when it comes to wonderful wedding ceremonies. You want to get everything just right, and this is where a wedding planning checklist. Have you gotten your wrote up for that big event?
Then why would you stick on a wedding planning checklist? Wow let me tell you, there are many things and areas to cover. First you begin with the date you are getting married. This of course should be written at the top of your wedding planning checklist. Secondly, you should have the location and time of your wedding. Have you decided on an ideal setting yet? Maybe you were thinking of a all-in-one private getaway ceremony. This way you can take care of the location, lodging and food all in one whack. Have every thing planned out far in advance. That’s always the key to a great wedding that runs smoothly. When my wife and I planned our special date, we booked the hotel room over a year in advance. It was a private ceremony, and we decided to do the wedding and honeymoon all in one whack. With our detailed wedding planning checklist, it all ran smoothly.
Well you can include other additives to your wedding planning checklist should include who is going to marry you, the exact location of the ceremony, the wedding cake, the bouquet, the marriage license, possible blood testing, and of course the rings. These are all crucial elements of a wedding ceremony. Of course it’s up to the guy and girl to do their dress and tuxedo on their own. Overall, a wedding planning checklist should include a lot. That one tiny thing that is overlooked can really ruin everything. Therefore it’s prudent to plan far in advance with a well-written wedding planning checklist.
And most important, planning a wedding is not a small job and it can get stressful, especially when it can also become an emotional event for the couple and their family and friends. A Wedding Planner can provide moral support and reduce stress by taking the burden of planning and handling a wedding. What better assurance can you give the bride and groom then knowing that they have someone who’s done it many times, taking care of everything for them.
And here’s a sort of experienced that I want to share with you guys out there. I know that there are times that we try to simplify projects for people so much that we make things complicated. As our daughter is getting married this year. She has been engaged for eighteen months and still has not made any arrangements for the wedding. This is driving me crazy. I am a take charge get organized kind of person. I do not care where she has her wedding or what type of dress she wears or anything like that, I just want to make sure that some progress is being made towards getting things done.
My daughter has always been very much like her father. Never concerned about details, and waiting to the very last minute to plan anything. I try really hard not to meddle in her life, but some things need to be done far in advance when getting ready for a wedding. When my daughter first announced her engagement she told us that they were going to be waiting for at least two years due to her fiancé completing his education. I bought her a wedding planner book as a way to help her remember all the details that go with a wedding celebration. When I went to pick out the book I could not believe the different wedding planner books that were available. They have them for every conceivable time period as well as for theme weddings. I looked through several of the wedding planner books and decided on one that I though would most closely represent the kind of wedding I thought my daughter would have. When I gave her the book she made me promise that I would not bug her about the details. She made it very clear that if she needed or wanted my help she would ask me for it.
My husband and I were asked over to her apartment to have dinner with her and her fiancé. I told my husband on the way to the apartment that I was going to see if I could not get her to share some of the details about the wedding, or at least talking about what has been done and what needs to happen. They have set a firm date, but I do not know if that is based on personal reasons for the date or if it is the date they can get a reception hall and church. When we arrived at the apartment I noticed the wedding planner book was setting out on the coffee table. To my relief it looked like she had been handling it quite a bit. When I mentioned this to her she was very proud to tell me that they had rented a reception hall, called a caterer, reserved the church and was in the process of picking out invitations. She was glowing because she felt so good about accomplishing all these things on her own. I was glad that I did not interfere.
Finally, to all the lovers out there who plan about their wedding. You can get some tips or checklist through wedding planner books or maybe you can hire a wedding planner on how to organize your wedding. You can search also online to get some ideas. I’m sure you can have a memorable wedding ceremony you aim for.
